Stallion, if she isn't willing to do it, you start it... when she comes home knackered and wrung out, tells you what happened, YOU keep the diary.

Thanks for the link Kat, but there was another, later (2002?) thread about the same subject. I know, because I posted to it, after being bulled in the new job I'd just started in the thread you linked to!

I'll have a rootle round and see what I find.

LTS