I hope my obit would read 'loved by many'... yes, I am that insecure!

Obits are really, really hard to write, when you know the truth about someone. Writing my fathers' was a job I left to someone else, someone who didn't know what a violent, racist coward he was, who didn't know about the punches he threw at my mother or the abuse he hurled at anyone not like him or the way he sent his 12yr old daughter out to fight his battles for him.

LTS