what is puzzling Diane - is how do you manage? I don't suppose musicians are really any more libidinous than traffic wardens, or teachers, anybody - but the presence of alcohol in venues and the night and the music does tend to weave its none to subtle spell.

I should have though GS's ogle 4O years ago, when he was young and the sap was rising, could be thrust into the background of your relationship. Time to let go...sort of thing.