This is complete BS, but I'm desperate!

I've volunteered to host a bridal shower, and I have no idea what I'm doing.

This is a fairly non-traditional bride/couple, and a group of women who work together.

Can anyone tell me your favorite shower thoughts/activities/etc? AND your shower horrors to avoid?

We are all cooks and caterers (at least one catered her own wedding!), so I'm good on food advice, but what does one DO at a shower these days?!

Dani