'Ere Liz, maybe it's Raven's way of saying "Don't let the Vicar near me again, I promise I'll be good...." I mean, all cats are pagan, right? *G*

As for a cat that refuses to take food from one person in particular, I'm stumped. The only thing I can think of is that you can never feed her scraps again. That and your husband is in for a chore for the length of the cats life..... Wish I could be of more help Tabster.