As a philosophical answer, I would say where there is abuse in the home of relatives, and a satisfactory if not perfect facility, there is no question whatsoever. And as we age we must be prepared not to burden others if our care is too much for them. I am quite glad to pay whatever taxes it takes for people to have decent at least care and to also insure that I do not have to take on the care of someone it would be too hard either physically or psychologically (as would have been my difficult mother) to do...mg