Yes, Don, you quoted and I have never said anything else.
people who are overly concerned with what other people do in the privacy of their own bedrooms.
Not necessarily true. One could not care at all about that and defend the right of people to do whatever* they want with consenting adults but disagree about homosexual marriage (the position of the German highest court BTW).

Rapaire (many many posts ago, right at the start of the thread) has said what I personally think is the best solution.

*no, surely not whatever, if you recall the German cannibal case who did with the other guy only what that guy wanted too. But that is an extreme case in which I cannot see anyone here defending the "right" of two consenting adults to do whatever they wanted for their sexual arousal.

Wolfgang