Dearest Threadie...Oh, I know you mean well (you do, don't you?) and probably get very frustrated and some of the "tit for tat" chat around here. Who doesn't at times? But...

But.......Music, musicians and alcohol tragedies have been closely related since the first caveman played the drums.

I have watched so many friends lose their skills, gigs and friends because of acohol and drug stuff. Every day I see it.

John, if this is a legitimate post (and excuse me for asking...'cause some folks like to "flame" when they're bored) you'll find some friends and support around here. Hang in.

Rick