Very sound advice Aine, Mark, Sinsul, Rick. There are resources out there John and the first step is to admit that you have a problem & can't do it alone. You have friends here. Guest Threadie; If you want to know what the subject has to do with music take a peek at how Janis Joplin and Hank Williams died to mention only two. Music isn't the driving force it is because it is static. Music drives us because it speaks to us of life's problems and blessings. Alcoholism is a great problem for millions. If you think it doesn't affect music, listen to some of George Jones stuff. Life is too short to listen to others try to enforce their opinions on how this sight should be run. You of course are entitled to express you opinion. That's the great thing about this sight. One would hope that you will learn a bit of tact and decorum before you do so again. Reguards to all, Neil