Ruth, did you mean that you recalled using the word "gay" in Atlantic City, New Jersey, and your daughter used "gay" in England and you didn't use the word "naff" in Atlantic City way back or your daughter doesn't use the word "naff" now. And if so, I read your post wrong and the word "naff" really is of UK origin and that word sometimes means "gay" and sometimes "gay" means "homosexual" and sometimes "gay" means "happy".

I'm so confused.