K I wasn't going to post this here, but he DID authorize it in the first place so I bet he won't mind, and maybe it will help us find him.

He works ... or, he used to work here, there's a short bio and his picture. I've emailed the counsellors there, no response. Yet. Doesn't mean there'll never be, though. Patience, patience and thinkin positive. NOthing but positive allowed here!@!!!