Well, okay... You did resond "in kind", meaning that your response was on the level of her question...

As for judegement??? Hey, don't be so hard on yourself... It was the heat of the moment... Her behavior wasn't all that great either...

As for myself, I have learned that "When in doubt with the womenz, flatter them"... Even if they haven't done anything to deserve it...

I probably would have said something like, "How could I help from starring??? I thought you were ____________ (fill in your own well known hottie movie star of model)...

But that's just me...

If she indeed was ugly enought to make a freighttrain jump tracks and take a dirt road I might have said exactly what you said...

No matter... Let it go....

Bobert