Dave tG I think old Shakespeare summed up how I feel about your response
" To be or not to be,
That is the question
whether it is nobler in the mind
to suffer the slings and arrows
of outrageous fortune
or take up arms against a sea of troubles
and by so opposing end them"
Shakespeare, Hamlet

If young teenagers (or anyone ,for that matter)are allowed ,unopposed , to be gratuitously rude to anyone as a means of showing off how "clever" they are how will they ever learn where the boundaries are?
"If not You, Whom?, If Not Now When?,