Ralphie you can control it,you ask to have items removed.
In the same way, when one makes a recording it states quite clearly,no unauthorised recording without permission,that is what copyright law is all about.
now I think you tube is excellent,but material should not be put up without the artists permission,and personally I would want to see the video first:because I can sit at home and make my own video of myself and select the best of a couple of takes,I then have control over my material.
you may have been there and done it,but you are not suffering, I am,and no I cant record it again, exactly as it was because the same session musicians are not available.