Kelida,

I'm sure this isn't the first time you've run across one of these types and it won't be the last. The only good thing about first dates a lot of times is that it can also be the last date! I hope, though, that you didn't go into this guy's house on the first date...that could be dangerous as I'm sure you know. Just be careful.

doesterr--

You didn't "lose out" on those women. They clearly gave you the idea that the answer was "no" and you did the right thing--and may have saved yourself some crimianl charges, as you mentioned. Anyone who plays games like that is not worth your time in the first place. And Dave, you sound like a great guy--those women lost out on YOU.