Tami, above all stay SAFE. Possessions don't mean anything without you and your mom. Are there any abuse hotlines there in WA which you can call for support and maybe to grease the wheels with the idiot sheriff's dept.?
I am giving thanks, right now, for the safest and perfect outworking of this situation for the highest good of all concerned. BIG Kudos to your mom for getting out of there when she did and to YOU for helping her.