Tami. (a very long pause) Many thoughts but most important is the safety of you and your mom. God bless you both. Things like this really rile me up and I would hate to tell you what initially goes through my mind. But that is the Old Man. While I pray for you and your mom, I will also be praying for your mom's vis' your abuser also. It is really awesome what God can do. Do what you can. Be smart. Be safe.