I enjoyed the story about Norman, Don! ;-D First good laugh of the day, that was. I bet there have been a few people around with that sort of problem.

The thing about free will is....you have got to USE it effectively! Otherwise it's no good for anything. Deciding to wait for a sign is a decision, of course, but it's not a decision that leads in any useful direction or is likely to yield any useful result, generally speaking.