In Maine, there is an Order of Protection in effect, concerned law enforcement and a few very angry locals. Whatever happens will be dealt with quickly and effectively. There are numerous "safe houses" available nationwide in the unlikely event that they are needed. Thank you all for your concern but once again I am going to request that you keep this thread positive. Tami and Diane have been through a lot and reminding them of the possibilities just doesn't help. Believe me, no one here is ignoring worse case scenarios. We have all been through similar situations and know. Mary