I'm lucky to live in an area where traffic isn't really a problem. It's about a 17 mile drive into town, through rolling hills and wheat. The seasons play out perfectly, and there is always plenty of wildlife to watch (and watch out for). Great music also helps the road fly by.

I'd much rather have my bike/feet/brain being used than to sit in the back of one of those damned SUV's. I'll never understand the need for folks to stay 'connected' these days. Actually LISTENING to people has become a lost art. I'd much rather turn the ringer off, and share an hour and a pot of tea in real conversation than be at the mercy of a telephone, pager, cellphone, laptop, etc. I find it quite rude, glossing over the important things in an effort to accumulate and consume.

Peter: Be thankful that rhythm hasn't taken over. When I lived in the city, I commuted with friends. The herd mentality does seem to take over after a while. The best I can offer is that you use the time to find out something new about yourself and the folks around you. Maybe talk your partner into leaving an hour early one day, driving up to watch the elk and meditate on the day to come.