Wow, this has gotten a lot longer since I was last here a couple days ago. I'm going to try and respond to everything, but if I miss you, I'm sorry, but here it goes:

Threadie--Well, what to say to you? Hmm. . . I don't think I'll ever be the girl I used to be. I wasn't a very nice person. I took guys for granted, and I ruined a relationship with someone I really cared about because I was immature. For more on that see the "Songs about infidelity" thread.

Amos and Allan C.--Wow, you guys are great--real advice. I do like to think that some guys are really great. It's strange because usually I do go out with musicians and artists. Those are the people I hang out with--I think this time I thought to try something new. Oh well, I suppose I learned my lesson; I just hate to judge people before I get to know them. . . Guess I'll stick with what I know best from now on. . .

Amergin and Mooh--Thank you so much for your sympathy and kind words. I wouldn't say this was a "horrific" dating experience, but I've had better, and I certainly hope for better in the future.

Harpgirl--The thread was clearly labeled BS, although it is in a way music related. If you don't approve, don't respond. I'm sure you've seen the discussions about flamers and trolls on other threads. I don't consider this to be a problem worthy of a therapist, only idle discussion, so unless you have something to add, get over it.

Peace--Keli