theleveller,

I haven't told you what to believe in, and I haven't told you how to argue. I HAVE indicated that what you thought was free of insult didn't come across that way.

You had asked for an indication of what insult you had delivered. You've been answered. If you don't care that your communication comes across very differently than the way you intend it, that's on you.

If you have the expectation that people can and should read your mind to know and appreciate where you are fromm, how you joke at home, and what you mean-- that's not an expectaton likely to be fulfilled.

I'm sorry for whatever [bad behavior] has been your experience with believers. If you'll look back at my recent posts in this thread, you'll note that not all of us are looking to perpetuate whatever that experience was.

~Susan