Most of the paint manufacturers have color combination suggestions that go well together.
Go to Benjaminmoore.com and look at their color viewer for home owners.
Remember to stay light with the ceiling.

How about going with earth tones, a buff color on the ceiling, a sage green for cabinets and the back wall and buff color for the rest of the walls. Since your countertops and appliances will stay white, I would keep the ceiling and at least one wall an off white (like buff) color. You don't want to have the white you can't change to look too stark against deep or bright colors.

Try out different color combinations on the paint company sites, but include white as that is your countertop color.