Claire - I can understand what yo9u're saying. Advent is very important in our congregation and it is reflected in the music and the lighting of the candles and the expectency of the celebration to come. On Christmas eve there are 4 packed services, followed by a party at midnight, and a bright and joyful service the next morning.

While I'm not as consistent as you about avoiding shopping and speding time alone instead for reflection - it is easier now that our kids are older to at least have a calmer Advent. This week there are many family get-togethers planned, with lots of food and singing and playing together.

~b.w.