Wesley S is correct, the pain continues beyond the first year. I can draw on many good memories of my father, and speak about him to others who knew him. What does one do in coming to terms with the prebirth death of our infants? Christmas, New Year, birthdays, Spring, Summer, Autumn, Winter; all times and seasons are reminders, without a way to express those losses. It may indeed be an error for me to mention it here.

My prayers for you all posting here are for your pain to ease, and for your joys to increase.

maeve