I guess it would be relevant to refer in this thread, given the turn it has taken in subjects under discussion, to direct your collective attention to a song in the DT, called The IPD, which was written by our own Oz singer-songwriter extraordinaire, Judy Small. She also wrote Mothers, Daughters, Wives, and the one called Bridget Evans, and heaps more great songs.

Just put IPD, or [Judy Small] in the blue search box above and you should find it.

Helen