Wow, Spider ... you been whipsawed, Big Time. I feel for you --- well -- up to a point that is --- after that you gotta do yer own darn feelin! It is an amzing thing this electricity between the persuasions, and so inbuilt that just discussing it gets some of us a buzzing like blueflies. Just aaa--mazing. I join you in sending the fondest thanks to the ladies alla round, and my love to Barbry Ellen...well, maybe I'm gettin' punchy here. G'night, Gracie!