Rita Ferrara might have some tips on playing one...she's been doing so for years, I hear. I'll also ask Night Owl as she's been urging me to play one for years. I did buy one and wound up sending it to her. I had the same problem as you, Poppa...it was just terribly awkward. Now, though, several years later, I think I'd like to try again.

On the lap was good enough for June Carter Cash. :-) (youtube video)

I was going to say it probably helps to be slim and/or small chested, but this fellow doesn't seem to have any problems with it.