Fortunately my kids and I share a lot of musical tastes. They know enough about mine, they will make sure I hear the things that will comfort me. We did the same for my mom, even when she was in and out of consciousness and deathly ill. We played a tape of Mozart to her, through a small cassette player and she focussed on that instead of the pain. We believe it had a great deal to do with her being healed. In fact my brother wrote an article about and had it published.