As my ex-husband once said to me: "Oh stop moaning, woman - and get your finger out!" Needless to say I divorced the bastard shortly afterwards. Jilling is pretty much standard in certain circles, and has never acquired insult status probably because female masturbation is invariably seen as a very good thing, certainly as erotic as it is empowering - unlike the male counterpart which is invariably associated with sad lonely guys who can't get their hole.

You heard about the compulsive wanker? He fell down the stairs and smashed his pyjamas. Says it all really.