Well, ok then...given names. So many categories of 'first'...

In 3rd grade there was beautiful Margaret H., daughter of a fire chief. She sat in front of me....and I actually once dipped her long, golden curls in the inkwell! (yes..it DOES show my age. I once held the job of 'inkwell filler'....)

When I was about 12, I visited my Uncle in San Diego when a niece of my aunt was also visiting. Her name was Virginia, and I had my first serious crush. We acted like kids for 2 weeks..joking and going to the zoo. Mooned over her for 2 years, even though I only knew her for 2 weeks.

In high school, there was Susan...one of the most popular girls in school. By this time, I knew what fantasies were for! I never even attempted to ask her out... Years later, someone who knew her told someone who knew me, that she had said.."Oh, yes...Bill D....I wonder why he never asked me for a date?" arrrggghh.

Finally, in 1st year college, there was Kay. We dated, and we married. It lasted 6 years. *shrug*