I think you also have to weigh some health effects..I think it is necessary to stand up, but perhaps you can't always, each and every time. It wears the body down. I think constantly inciting anger in young men, which is done, and there is justification for their anger..but nevertheless, inciting young men to anger can result in them doing jail time among other problems. There has to be some sort of balance..keep pressing, but perhaps systematically..I don't know the answer...I know constant confrontations will have the opposite effect of what is really desired...always letting things slide is not the answer, always fighting to the end is not the ansewr for most anyway. Everyone has to work towards decency I think..to be a decent person..the one thing I have somehow retained from my semi-Irish ancestry...be decent...mg