And why do I see a bunch of uninvolved third parties trying to persuade Bobert to have surgery when he clearly doesn't want it, bobad? And when they aren't experiencing what he is experiencing, and therefore aren't in a position to make his decisions FOR him? That's what I'm objecting to here, not doctors.
It isn't a doctor that's trying to persuade Bobert to get surgery here...it's some non-doctors on a frikkin' internet forum!