A special word to J.a.b.   I have just seen your wonderful poem, and it has touched my heart. He did tell me how much it mattered to him that you put your precious little daughter into his arms at a time when he wasn't the flavour of the month. Yesterday you were inconsolable. I do really want you to be feeling better today, now that you have expressed your heartfelt feelings. You are a lovely lady and a loving big sister to my granddaughter. I believe that Roger would want us to be together in every sense of the word, and don't forget that I know quite a lot about how very much you had to cope with during those difficult years. I look forward to spending more time with you and am so very glad that all of us who loved him could be together to celebrate his life.