I, also, prefer not to use my real name on the Net at all, which includes Mudcat. However, Jenny, I would be very saddened to see moonchild vanish from the Cafe - you're one of the people (like katlaughing, and probably most of the people named in one posting by one -if not the- troublesome flamer) whose posts I actively seek out. Now, I might be one of the relative newbies to whom you refer, who often discusses things that don't directly relate to music, but that's because music is only one facet of my life. I like discussing anything and everything in this forum because this is somewhere I'm likely to get into a fun, involved, conversation with fun, intelligent folks who are likely, by virtue of a shared interest in folk music, to have shared interests in general. But, as I've said in prior discussions, I do try to be polite and courteous. So I wouldn't say Oh, please keep posting, you're so much fun to have around! I would say (hey, I think I did!), how sad it would be if you left.