Mrbisok, you can click on th "Help Support the Mudcat" icon up at the top. (It's the fish jumping out of the banjo to the left of the blue search box, and is the only thing that "moves" on the page.)

I love trying to figure out why groups work the way they do. <soapbox> While the nastier messages get in the way sometimes, I applaud Max for not moderating this forum. It's a hard thing to do, but we learn how to deal with nastiness and grow as a community. If bad things never happened here, or we were sheltered from them, we would be a lot more vulnerable than we are. Sure, I lament the loss of innocence along with everyone else, but it's the way the group chooses to deal with nastiness that will make or break us - not the individual nasties. Growth doesn't happen without change, no matter how unpleasant change may be. </soapbox>

And it's not the fights you dreamed of
But those you really fought
It's not what you've been given
It's what you do with what you've got
--Si Kahn