I have reset my cookie. Chocolate chip, not humble pie.

Re: the overdone veggies. There is a wonderful scene in one of Amy Tan's books in which a second generation Chinese woman is introducing her American boyfriend to the family. As is tradition, the mother modestly places the various dishes on the table and points out the faults of each. When she finally puts out her SPECIALTY, she states "I think it may need a little salt. It's too bland." The American answers "Don't worry about it" and generously spices the dish with soy sauce to the horror of everyone at the table.