The problem I have is I can't separate my selfworth from my image of people who push themselves forward before everyone else. I accept I have a problem with extravagent praise - I like to think I can accept critisism. I think what I hate most is a fuss being made. I think I rather like - Well done , Thank you etc rather than anything more gushing. I constantly worry that I talk too much about my daughter to other people - worry that I boast. I hate to see it in other people as far too often I find that some people are totally self centred who's kids can do no wrong.Julie