The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #21758   Message #232914
Posted By: Amos
24-May-00 - 01:28 AM
Thread Name: I'm not worthy...or Am I?
Subject: RE: I'm not worthy...or Am I?
Good point. It isn't just "goodness" that forms the enforced reality of false personae. Depending on circumstances people can do similar retreats into all kinds of attitudes, postive or negative -- cruelty, rudeness, being cunning, guilty, mocking, feeling hurt, feeling ridiculed -- as chronic ways-of-being, not acute emotional passages. Pressures from peers to act sneaky can have a similar whipsaw effect to pressures from parents or others to act good, dpending on who your latest overwhelm is by...