It took four years of therapy and I don't know how many thousands of dollars to learn the "good" child in me was screaming to be "bad". Julie, you're right. This "good" is based on appearances only and has nothing to do with right or wrong. I will print Dr. S's observations out and share them if it's OK with Amos.

Little Neo - if Catspaw wants to play with things other than the keys, he has a right, NO an obligation to do so. Although I think he has the "good child" in him pretty well under control. And a little Nair works like a charm.