Hey Donuel,

Be strong man!

Concentrate on your son and work at healing his hurt from the whole experience and strengthen your relationship with him.

My sympathy goes out to you unreservedly.

Your story disgusted me.

It upsets me deeply how people unilaterally make decisions like that with complete disregard for the damage they are causing their child.

You muust be furious!

But you mustn't let it become your focus.

Your son and rebuilding the trust between you and him must come first.

That is all that really matters in the end.

But as you're seeing the head anyway ...

... no don't give him/her hell ...

... that's probably exactly what he/she wants ...

Take care and keep your family safe.