Co-habitation. Then you can just have a nice party to celebrate whatever you want, whenever you want without all the bullshit middle class lists of "should" and "must" do crap.

It is evil, the wedding industry. I'm still trying to figure out why gay marriage is the goal for the GLBT community. We would be far better off lobbying and advocating for partnership benefits, legal rights, and fair and equitable taxes for all.