The side that seeks the other's destruction is the one that has, since before they even began dispossessing those on the other side, been very clear that removing all of those other people is the goal.

The European colonialists in what is now Israel and occupied Palestine have been very clear from the very beginning that their goal and purpose is to remove all of the indigenous people from the area they wanted for their state, and they have also been very clear that the boundaries of the area they want for their state shall be defined only by them.

And this makes my comparison entirely accurate.