It's like hearing your parents fighting all the time in the next room, wondering if they're hitting each other yet. Then they come out and explain that they weren't really fighting, they really love each other and were mostly kidding around. It makes you just want to leave and go to a place where people can be kind to one another without having crockery sail past their heads.

I know-- we don't have to read the thread. But if you host sessions you might think that they could actually be some info in here, among all the shite to wade through-- and it turns out that there is. But I would never link a friend to it, for the info, because this thread is not a resource: it's a nasty set of text messages now preserved for all time.

~Susan