Kendall - to answer your question.... it depends entirely upon the circumstances and me already having a husband is a major circumstance.

As for what others would do, I can't answer that, but the incidents of infidelity that abound would suggest that many people would.

Little Hawk - been there, done that... it's not always pretty. Still, I don't think he never knew how I felt about him and I was very young. Oddly enough, he was called Paul too.... my life is full of Pauls.

LTS