...Or with generally angry people...wasn't holding my breath, either. Its really of no import. People want to see, do, and hear what they want...then re-act according to what they perceive. When one is both angry, and self-absorbed, simultaneously, they tend to get defensive, and take things personally. Being as those two things at once, makes one weak,and staying angry is a reason not to opening up, to look at ones own part in an unforgiveness, and to higher stuff. Its the weak that accuse others of their own motives.(Because its all they see).Unforgiveness, itself comes from a feeling that one has not been punished enough for a wrong you think was done to you...as long as you hold on to it, and don't let go of it...(because the person who did you wrong hasn't been punished enough to your suiting, you stay angry, and bitter. So, actually unforgiveness punishes no one, except yourself, still waiting for that old 'X' to get his!!