Bobert had it dead on. Big holiday weekend, grass to mow, all afternoon gig to play period music with the kids -- in the rain :(

As for whether people are angry, self-absorbed, weak, illogical, or let's see, what other pejoratives have been trotted out so innocuously? Oh yes, defensive, bitter....

Well, there are folks who can be quite insulting without meaning to, or realizing it, and trying to explain it just makes one seem small. So I figure if no offense was committed, there's no need to forgive anything.

I got way better things to do.