Why does it have to be about you personally, Bee? No one would be in any position to make such judgements about you unless they had known you for some while in 3-D life, seems to me. Then maybe...or maybe not.

One can't just sum up a person's character on the basis of a few remarks they made in the heat of a discussion on the Internet. And that goes for any of us here. What I mean is...that goes both ways.

Seems to me that people here are just reacting and over-reacting to what someone else said (some part of it)...and then accusing the other person of doing the same thing to them...and it's going back and forth like a pingpong ball. And GOSH, where have I seen that before? Oh, on about 500 other contentious Mudcat threads somewhat like this one.

I'm a Libran. I've heard that Librans like to create harmony, end conflict, and bring opposing sides together. It seems to be true in my case. I can usually plainly see the good intentions and high ideals of people on both sides in an argument, and I can see the common ground they both share.

I bet there isn't one of us in this discussion who does not in his or her heart honor and respect women.