I figure every soul is both male and female. Just a theory, but it sounds right to me. The trouble is, when you incarnate into a human frame then you must manifest the one outwardly and not the other. The other remains implicit and unseen. Then all the people around you start telling you how to "act"...according to your outward role as a boy or a girl...and for most people they never question those roles that are placed upon them. They are usually afraid of the implicit "other" that is hidden within them. That leads to problems in relating to the opposite sex.

Have you had any recall of living another life as a female, Amos? I have. It was interesting, because it seemed so totally natural...just as easy as changing one set of clothing for another. I could see right away what is appealing about being in either gender.

I figure that either gender offers equally good possibilities...but, of course, that depends to quite an extent on the nature of the society one finds oneself living in at the time.