Gosh you are defensive.

No I'm not trying to be politically correct. I can read two sides of a discussion above - one saying "it cuts both ways" on the issue of responsibility and the other saying "it's not that simple" I then explain why the second view is the correct one.

Clarification is my word of choice.

Thankfully on these threads it is all recorded so you can read back over it if you like, which makes bickering about who said what redundant.

And for the record I believe women should indeed feel entitled not to be held responsible for rape.

I don't think thats too much to handle is it?